Yea I am back in the blog studio
By the way, Jim Jones was a White trash preacher who had one of the first multiracial churches in the country. A mentally ill white man that had a mixed baby. His son is still alive and that is a good thing. Unfortunately, many sellout black women are dating the Jim Jones of the world with their dirty sneakers and kinky desires. They hide their embarrassment and shame from their failed relationships with white men. They lash out at me because they are bitter and angry. God bless them and I hope they find peace in their lives.
I saw the poll; and about 64 percent of black women believe white men would marry them seriously. That poll surprised me because I thought it would be a higher percentage. It is good, people are trying to be honest about interracial dating. I have the read comments attacking me for stating my opinion of black women dating white men. I just think black women dating white men will not benefit them. Evia, Sara, and other blogs always make it seem like "White men" are entering the black community in large numbers to get a black woman. That is not the case why do you think Evia advocates black women to leave the black community.
I was reading Evia's blog and here she is lashing out incoherently.
My response:
First of all, my response has NOTHING to do with "TOP" bm who mix and mate with or prefer white and white-skinned women and it's MAINLY top black MALES who do that at this point. Some lower-tiered bm even brag about how easily many of them can date and marry ww and other white-skinned women, so you need to direct this comment at them because I don't defend or answer for anything that AA men do. However, it's been the custom worldwide for thousands of years for men to ask women to date and marry them. Both of my husbands wooed me and asked me to marry them. Women cannot date or marry men against their will. Many AA women have foolishly, in my opinion, continued to hold out, waiting for AA males--due to the way these women are indoctrinated to be loyal to the AA group. Loyalty is a strong controlling force. Many bw are STILL loyal to the AA group--even many of the ones who know better, whereas many bm obviously have no feelings of loyalty whatsoever. Many bm, as you say, may very well be trying to mate out their feelings of inferiority. My focus is on bw, so my response is the following.
Then Thomas Jefferson, Strom Thurmond, Peter Norton (megamillionaire owner of SYMANTEC), George Lucas (billionaire of Star Wars fame), former defense secretary Cohen, and too many others to name rich, powerful TOP white men in history and now must have been/are trying to mate out their "sorry feelings" of WHITE INFERIORITY (according to your perspective) by then mating with AND now MARRYING black women these days. During slavery and Jim Crow, they obviously wouldn't leave bw alone. Miscegenation laws had to be passed to control those white men who were so inclined to mate with bw. Bad for business!! Those wm must have been trying to mate out their inferiority? Mating with bw was a southern INSTITUTION! This is recorded history. Lots of rich powerful wm and others had bw mistresses and the mothers of many of their biological children were bw. There were LOTS of wm baby daddies. Obviously, they couldn't/can't stand THEIR own women. HMMMMMMMM? My site has posted all of these bw-wm couples' pictures (hundreds by now and this is one of the MAIN reasons I've posted them). Other than that, many folks would be trying to deny it's happening and has happened. Historically, who did any more mixing with bw than all of those wm from the top to the bottom??? I would say that Thomas and Strom were about as TOP as white folks could manage, for ex. Do I need to fill the page with the names of other TOP wm who preferred to mate with bw? It wouldn't take much to do that--to list the names of a whole LOT of TOP wm who mated with bw and/or had children by them in these 'heah' United States during slavery and Jim Crow and NOW, let alone in other parts of the world. Now you go and crunch on that--you small brained A-HOLE! And I WOULD SAY THIS TO YOUR FACE IF I EVER MET YOU, THAT IS IF YOU HAD THE BALLS TO REVEAL YOUR SMALL BRAIN TO ME--Which I doubt you'd have the courage to do.
Anyway, you gave me an opening for a wonderful "teachable moment." LOL! I LOVE those.
She mentioned Thomas Jefferson and slave owners who raped black women back in slavery. She called that "mating out". I am sorry to say Thomas Jefferson thought black people were beasts. He thought they were like a horse or an animal. Her suggestion white men wanted black women back then is absurd. You can watch "Roots" when that white boy decided to marry a black woman they called him a "nigger" had him living in the "Barn" with his slave wife. Then she mentions indoctrination. These same black women that claim they are "smart and independent", now claim, black men are brainwashing them to stay loyal to them.
I guess the indoctrination includes black men telling white men to pick you last too? Indoctrination must mean Evia and her ex Nigerian husband brainwashed her ass too. Now she is running around advocating every black women should be with a white man. Trying to sound "high and mighty" now that she can sleep in "Massa" Bed. Then she mentions Jim Crow and Slavery. White men desired you right? They had you cleaning toilet bowls and watching their white children with their WHITE WIVES. That is a sick, kinky desire. Your to dumb to notice that. The she mentions laws banning interracial dating. She claims it was to stop white men from dating black women before the 1960's.
Oh really lol, from my understanding, they lynched black men dating white women. Show me evidence of a black woman lynched for sleeping with a white man?
I am starting to wonder if Evia is even educated at all. She is so busy kissing white ass she revises history along the way. Now we have white men wanting black women all along, even during slavery. The raping and beatings was just out of love baby!
That's all it was.
I am gone.
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thomas jefferson and storm thurmond who raped those black girls when they were just teenagers id her defense?! im disgusted that evia would even call herself champing for black women when she saids something like this. So she alls those black women who were raped and humilated by white men should be grateful for it because they found them pretty enough to rape? im im just disgusted with her right now.
Dear Raina
I thought the whole post was odd. I think she was angry at somebody saying a comment she did not like.
It was still a strange statement.
There is something about their movement that causes them to lose contact with sanity and logic.
@Raina,
I doubt very seriously that the women being raped enjoyed men forcing themselves on them. All of this coming from someone who always is advocating violence against women.
Thurmond did not publicly acknowledge his own daughter. She only really surfaced after he died to tell her story. If he was one of those men who were not embarrased to have a mix daughter, it would not have been coverd up for such a long time. Also, Thurmond never married any black women that I am aware of.
Two of out the how many other men?
lol ,yall are too funny! You grab onto anything and make a big deal out of it.No one knows for sure if these women were raped, if they were it is sad but I don't remember it being stated anywhere.
As for Storm Thrumond, yeah sure a 22 year old will take responsibility for a child he made with an underage girl! Black or not, that is usally the outcome in most of those cases.
The past is the past, what happened happened. People need to let shit go, yeah it was sad and some of it was true but times have changed. Those monsters who did that are long gone and its sad that white people get blamed/put down for what happens years ago. I agree with the lisa chick from before. I actually feel bad for the current white people of today.Many of them are hated/dissed because of the white people of the past.
Your poll was voted by not only black women but I'm sure some men voted too. It only had 31 votes. Your question wasn't geared to women only, not from the way you stated it anyway.
You tend to pick out the bad and over look the good. Thinking that one situation/couple are like all of the other couples. It would be like people all black men beat there women because Ike beat Tina. It's stupid really. You read more into stuff becaase your really looking for anything to use against IR couples. I think your jealous of the white man for whatever reason. You keep saying that you've never gotten your heart broken by a black girl who left you for a white man but I think otherwise. You claim your in a relationship with a black women but you continue to down other black women who are in relationships??
Now watch Like clock work, your going to throw out your infamous phrase of me kissing the white mans ass, sellout, nappyhead or one of your other corny ass pharse you can't seem to let go. LOL Your really too funny.
BTW, I'm still trying to figure out why you didn't jump on Damiens back. If it was a black women on here saying she dated non-black men and dis-like the black community you would call her a sellout. Someone before said it right, you don't have respect for women period. Even the way you talk about your fiancee,it doesn't sound very loving if you ask me. You keep saying how she loves you and how she would die for you but I never heard you say you love her or would die for her.
Dear Anonymous
Damien said his girlfriend is Hispanic. I don't know if she is from "Spain". I doubt it so that would make her the offspring of a black woman most likely. I would go into the history of it but it would take to long.
Some Spanish people like to separate themselves from black people. Since, I have never met a pure blood Spaniard from "Spain". They are linked to black people.
That is correct I never had a black girl leave me for a white man. I have been with black women who had white boyfriends. That sort of disgusted me because I never knew about it.
That is not my woman but the principle of it bothered me. They sort of used their white boyfriend as a "crutch". God bless them it is hard to meet any black woman that is NOT insecure about men and relationships.
I think the poll was a good question. I don't see how the question was biased. I may influence the poll because some people just really dislike me. Aside from that, I was surprised that only 66 percent would marry a black woman seriously. I figure if I did not do the poll it would be lower.
You mention that I pick out the bad instead of the good in interracial relationships.
I disagree with that statement. I think black women talk about "only the good" with white men opposed to saying good things about black men.
When you start talking about negative things white men have done to you in dating. Then I can pick out the good things.
Na I am not going to call you names. The people I call names is the ones that disrespect me. Sometimes, the comments are subtle. I rather just curse you out.
I have been reading blogs for a long time. There is an art to it. Similar when rappers diss each other but the public don't see the subliminal stuff said.
I won't go into it. People that read blogs know the deal.
As for my fiancee, we have been together for three years. I was a different person back then. I was seeing other women and she sort of "tagged along". I also had a lawyer girlfriend while I was hanging out with my fiancee back then. If you saw Madea goes to Jail. It was similar to that. No disrespect to my ex girlfriend but it wasn't meant to be. I was about to wait for her career to "pop" and be like "Stedman".
One thing led to something else. I ended up in PA. That wasn't even my original plans. I decided to give her an engagement ring. I wasn't romantic giving her the ring I must admit. I was really nervous.
I am a cave man. I am not going to sit there and say I love you all day. You watch too many movies. Maybe, that is why women read novels.
I will be sure to work on some things and be a better man.
Thanks for coming
@Mr. Queens
You obviously don't want black women to date/marrry white men yet 70% of black women are unmarried with no GOOD marriage prospects in sight. If you are against black women dating/marrying white men what would you propose they do? Spend their lives alone.
Dear Anonymous
There is plenty of black men for black women to date.
They overlook them. I mean they can all line up for a white man. You tell me who does the white man picks to date before he even thinks about dating a black woman.
They rather disgrace themselves wondering why white men will not date them seriously.
Plenty of black men from different cultures.
If they think they have a better change with a white guy. Then good luck on it.
Whether she's from Spain or not, she is not a black women? She identity's herself as Spanish or Hispanic. I still don't see why you kind of let him slide( you didn't know she was hispanic till after he started talking all that crap...like way after). I really am starting to think you respect men more than women. Even with the Mike guy, you let something's he said slide. He was nice and all but you weren't as harsh to him as you were many other people who come on here. If it was a black women who said I date non black men and distance myself from the black race because I think they are pathetic, you would jump on her ass!
If you say so.
As a crutch? How so?
But most women are insecure about men and relationships in general. It really has nothing to do with race, you'll find white girls, Spanish and Asian girl that feel this way. For IR Couples the insecurity comes in because of the difference of race really, though it is understandable.
It was an okay question but you can't grantee that all women answered the poll , so it might not be as accurate as you think. it was from only 31 people too.
LOL is there anything good to really say? I can't think of anything off the top of my head about African American men in general. I can name some guys I know and what makes them good men but other than that nothing comes to me about other men.
There are negatives in a relationship with white men, there is negatives in all relationships. But from someone who dated guys from different races (I'm married now), I honestly found non-black men to be less defensive in away. Latin men tend to be a little on the controlling side. Asian guys are a little more quite, not really big on making a scene. White guys tend to be more Humble? , I find myself being able to talk easier with them ( white people in general seem to be nicer to me, in Manhattan though). Black guys have a little stronger personalities that can be very intimidating, you can find one who are down to earth but then there are some who think because he is a "good man" women should fall all over him and runs the bullshit like "good men are hard to find" as if he is such a keeper.
Ha-Ha, the ones that disrespect you? I guess by commenting people instantly disrespect you. The nice guy who attacks when attacked isn't going to work with me. I can point out plenty of comment where you go straight to the name calling. But you're not doing it with me, so I'll leave it.
Caveman? lol never said you had to constantly state how much you love your fiancee, I've just never seen you say it at all. When you talk about her it doesn't even seem like you love her honestly.
No one knows for sure if these women were raped, if they were it is sad but I don't remember it being stated anywhere. If my facts are correct: both were with people who were underage at the time (Strom's victim was 16, Jefferson's was 15) and both were not really in a position to say no.
If you don't accept them as victims, then you are basically agreeing with what White Supremacists have tried to "prove" all along about Black women. Even 15 and 16 year olds.
Dear Anonymous
You made some good points from your experiences with men. I think white women treat black men nicer. I don't know why that is. I am still trying to figure that out.
It is real sad that a white woman can spot a successful black man going "somewhere". But black women can't seem to distinguish between men that will be with them and leave them.
So much for the judgement of black women. Yet they want me to believe they will be able to spot a good white man. Simply, because he is nice to you. Nice is all fine and good until he marries you. I will not sit here and say interracial dating is the way to go.
Black men mean to intimidate on purpose. I can't help that I am a dark skin man. You will scare some people that is the reality. Black women want a man they can emasculate. When he is emasculated they can say they have a good man.
No you got a sucka. Yea I attack people who attack me. I am a nice guy I just don't put up the lies and bullshit.
I have less compassion than the average person. Nobody had compassion for me when I was "coming up". They wanted thugs and drug dealers. Then in college they wanted athletes that dropped them for white women.
Now you want to run to white men after you exhausted all your bad decisions. When a black man has something their desperation comes to the surface.
When a white man says he is not interested in you in a serious relationship. Some of you lash out. It is real sad and pathetic.
I remember I was in the chinese restaurant in Rosedale Queens. I just finished Undergrad. I ran into this girl that liked my "man" in high school.
I was like what's up. She was like how you been. I was like I been good finished college you know same ole same ole. Her man was sitting down (some soft dude).
I said " Oh that your man right there". She was like "oh um yea". I was like good luck on that. She said had two kids now. I use to think she was fly back in the day.
I got in my new car and left.
My fiancee I always speak good about her. She wants to push the wedding up. I am thinking about it.
Right now I am in New York finishing out my contract.
I might be go to Club Remix before I get locked down summer.
Because I like the Bartenderrrrrrrrrrrrrrr like T Pain said.
I wouldn't call them victims because I don't know the whole story, again it could have been rape, it could have not been. No one really knows. I won't throw out rape cards until I have the facts. AS for Jefferson, Sally Heming and Thomas supposedly had a 4 decade that resulted in a couple of kids who when turned 21 was free from slavery. From documents I've read it sounded more like affairs than a rape.
I don't agree with White Supremacists, I just don't know the facts. You and I weren't there so we do know if it was forced or she was just underage.
I have been following your blog for the last few weeks and I just wanted to know if you are only against black women dating outside of their race or is it black people in general? I think black women are way to unrealistic about white men -- they do pick us last and when they do, they get the cream of the crop black women. I really think black women should focus more on lowering the obesity rates, getting healthy and feminizing (something we lost along time ago) themselves before they start looking to white men to save them. Black men are so awesome and so very desired by women (and men) of ALL races -- we are lucky -- the average black man does not date outside of his race. Media uses athletes and other entertainers to attempt to get us to think that they are all dating non-black. It is really not true and most black men are married or in long term relationships with black women. You can't use Tiger, Reggie et al as the standard.
I have read those blogs by Evia et al and those women are really messed up in the head. Its really sad that they are leading black women to be disappointed by white man. If you are a Zoe Saldana or Naomi Campbell type (read very thin and good-looking) you will have a chance at getting a white man but I doubt he will look like he stepped out of the Abercrombie and Fitch catalog (i.e., considered good looking). Most white men i see with black women are very average looking or below average. Evia should be ashamed for using pedophile Thomas Jefferson as an example and stone cold racist Strom Thurmond. Any white man ( even Klan members) will have sex with black women so I wouldn't be proud of such liaisons. These girls need an ice cold glass of STFU.
Dear Anonymous
Thank you for the comments. The white men they are with are "average". Yet they put Halle Berry's unemployed white man as the ideal for black women.
I think I have seen one black girl with a decent looking white man. That was in Long Island and they were real young. They must have been 19 and 20.
Aside from that, the rest of them date white guys and 'act" like they are not with them.
Walking to the side like "that homely white man is not your man".
Stop being pathetic, not all black men is going to jump on you if you are with a white man. Most of the time your "nothing special" to even get worked up about.
Me personally, I assume your a prostitute if your with a homely white man if your an attractive black woman. That crosses my mind right away unfortunately.
Most of the time nobody even looks twice at these black women with white men. They are middle aged and past their prime.
I don't try to sugar coat anything. I say what people think in their head.
Just like when people say black men date fat sloppy white women. Well black men date sloppy black women. What is the difference?
Well, Black women carry their "fat" better. I agree.
By the way I am chubby myself. I don't want people thinking I bash chubby black girls LOL. I am 5ft10 200 pounds.
My fiancee is 180 pounds. Compared to all her white girlfriends she looks like she is "slim".
Weight is a sensitive issue for black women. The harsh reality is if white man want you that bad. Then he would go out of his way to talk to you chubby or not.
Black men do that good or bad.
Let me touch on the Thomas Jefferson issue. I read the letters. Thomas Jefferson would be considered a "sick individual" if people found out he "had sex fetish for a black female slave". No slave owners ever openly said they had sex with their slaves. They would say the "slavecatcher" did it. Some "hired hand" got the black female slave pregnant. No I don't get sentimental about a slave owner loving his female black slave he leaves in a barn or thinks is a "horse or cow".
Also, during slavery many black women were traumatized. So the black women that survived had to raise their offspring to be afraid of white men and do what they say.
I remember I was watching this A&E documentary about this white man in Conn I think. I forgot the state.
Anyway, he would lock young minority girls in his basement and force them to have sex. Not physically force them to have sex but coerced them by taking away their freedom.
They interviewed one of the girls that escaped why they didn't beat his ass and leave the dungeon. She said "He always locked the door behind him". If we knocked him out we would be trapped.
Essentially the same principle to slavery. You did what you had to do survive. A rapist rapes you and then he is kind to you because you got no place to go. Your going to say "At least he desired me". Evia sniffing Darren's coke again.
What kind of sick shit is that.
Now back to the documentary. The white man is sniffling and crying in court saying that he fed these "street girls" good. They had "steak" and grape juice.
LOL I am serious. The white man in sniveling and crying to the judge. Simply. can't understand why locking minority women in a basement is wrong!
There is many white men like this with "mild" form of mental illness of treating black women like this. They give them a nice place to live. Convince balck women that black men are bad. He fulfills his fetish for "black women" while they get a place to sleep and eat.
Some black women will do it because they are bitter and lonely. They taking the "money" and they know they are a sellout.
That is why it bothers them so much.
Then they get the nerve to call me racist. Racist how and a white man never set foot in a black neighborhood to date you.
Or he says meet him "in his comfort zone" with his white friends. You tap dancing for his friends because your the only black girl there.
Na , I rather be racist than be looked at like that.
Locked Down?? LOL Why would you be locked down this summer??
@Mr. Queens
You obviously don't want black women to date/marrry white men yet 70% of black women are unmarried with no GOOD marriage prospects in sight.
Menelik says:
and what makes you think a good majority of those unmarried Black women are worth marrying? Have you done a background check on them? Are most of the college educated and from two-parent backgrounds?
Why do people like you always assume the best of Black women and the worst of Black men? Can't you get a date or something, sweety?
Menelik Charles
London England
Your future wife had her kid taken from her, your emotionless and admit to having less compassion than the average person. and you want kids? LMAO you should be forbidden, I feel bad for your future kids. A daddy who is cold, a mother who can't keep her kids and they live in a hick town. They are royally fucked!
"Why do people like you always assume the best of Black women and the worst of Black men? Can't you get a date or something, sweety?
Menelik Charles
London England"
You apparently can't get a date since you're posting on here all the time!
And why do you keep posting "Anonymously" if you have a name you use? Just put your name in the Name/URL section! Man, you're slow.
Dear Anonymous
I am not emotionless. I just have less compassion than the average person. I am just a hardened individual. Most people have the need to be liked.
That need is absent from me. I like a good debate with intelligent people. I never said I was right all the time. My relationship is unorthodox.
My fiancee has her own demons she has to live with. I am not here to judge anybody. She went to church and got baptized for her sins.
I don't know if I want to do that. There is to much things to get done. You can't be angel among devils. You must not compromise your values.
Many people that lose their homes and life savings went to church. Never did a bad thing in their life. Yet, they lost everything.
I think there is something unfair about that.
As for the kids situation. I can't blame her totally for that. The father should have got the kids.
If it was my kid no way that would have happened. I wasn't there at that period of time.
I was in a different time period with a different woman.
LOL I am cold. I am a compassionate person. I think I am too compassionate if you ask me.
"I am not here to judge anybody."
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
i kind of feel sorry for black women who think white men are the way out..a solution so to speak...lets face it, the only non white women white men are obsessed with are east asian women...that explains why even though there are more black women then asian women in america, the highest proportion of interracial relationships comes from wm/aw couplings...
the highest proportion of interracial relationships comes from wm/aw couplings...
Thats because asian women are waaaaay more feminine than Black women...who just have better bodies but lousier attitudes!
Dear "commentators"
I don't get into whether black women are more feminine than Asian women. My issue is with them bashing black men to justify being with white men.
Asian women are with white men more. Yet, their population is smaller in the United States.
Go figure
It does not matter if Asian women are considered more feminine or not, the fact of the matter is that white men chose black women last as mates. Statistics clearly support this fact.
@ Anon - April 26, 2009 9:01 AM
"You obviously don't want black women to date/marry white men yet 70% of black women are unmarried with no GOOD marriage prospects in sight. If you are against black women dating/marrying white men what would you propose they do? Spend their lives alone."
Of that 70% who are unmarried, are they all heterosexual women seeking marriage? You say they have no good marriage prospects but how many THEMSELVES are GOOD MARRIAGE PROSPECT? And actually how many of those we would deem as good marriage prospect, WANT TO GET MARRIED?
1. Many black women put career before marriage and are not seeking to become married women with kids. Independent career woman is what it's all about. And among this demographic, there are some with superiority complex who think no man (of any color) is good enough for them anyway! NO MARRIAGE!
2. Many single women are actually in lesbian or bisexual relationships and have no intenton of getting married to any man. They love the lifestyle they lead. The porn stars, nite club strippers, prostitutes, hip hop video models and internet models and even corporate professional women fall into this group. NO MARRIAGE!
3. With the high rate of HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases among African Americans many women and men are ill and are not seen as marriageable. It would be interesting to know what % of the single black women and men fall into the "Infected with HIV/AIDS/STD" category. NO MARRIAGE!
4. Baby mama! Yup. The promiscuous low self-esteem women who think their SOLUTION to POVERTY is to get pregnant for men with resources and make a living from CHILD SUPPORT - A mistress on the side? Getting that red hot loving and big money from the successful MARRIED MAN whose CORPORATE WIFE only cares about her career and sorority get-together. And guess what? Many baby mamas (or childless mistresses) are into this head deep and loving it! Of course, on the other side of the coin, there are single moms who were actually used and got pregnant by multiple partners who were only interested in sex, but they weren't thinking HIGHLY of THEMSELVES and aiming for anything better in life, and keeping their legs closed. Who wants all this BAGGAGE? NO MARRIAGE!
And there you have it. Many black men are also not good prospects but don't make it appear as if all the 70% of BLACK WOMEN UNMARRIED actually WANT TO GET MARRIED, or themselves are WORTHY OF BEING MARRIED, and it's all the BLACK MAN's FAULT why they CAN'T GET MARRIED! Yeah that's the word: CAN"T! lol.
The feminist is gifted for using all kinds of weird DATA as a rallying cry for women to do this and do that. And now we see a new kind of feminist: THE BLACK WOMAN SUPREMACIST/ANTI-BLACK MAN FASCIST who believes the "superior black woman" deserves only the BEST KINDA MAN.. and the black man doesn't fit that bill! O yeah! She wants a QUALITY NON-BLACK MAN. Cause there's no such thing as a QUALITY BLACK MAN. Plus, The white man is in far greater numbers and is of a BETTER STOCK, so why WASTE TIME LOOKING AT BLACK MEN! Her blog is filled with discouraging rants about black men to poison the minds of the sistas to look elsewhere, cause no GOOD BLACK MAN ISN'T COMING FOR YOU! And when the sista disagrees, they are labeled as TROLLS and their comments deleted. These women even hate WHITE WOMEN who gave birth to these white men they're craving for a "pretty" biracial kid that they see as the BEST BREED of HUMANS!
I don't like that Evia woman because she listed loser/rapist white men who had relationship with Black women. That tells you something about her mind. To her, Black men are "inferior", white men, "superior". But those "superior" white men marry white, hispanic, and asian women en-mass. But when Black men speak his mind on Black women or women in general, she and her followers lose her mind. She missed the memo.
Stephanie(La Reyna)
non said:
"Now we see a new kind of feminist: THE BLACK WOMAN SUPREMACIST/ANTI-BLACK MAN FASCIST who believes the "superior black woman" deserves only the BEST KINDA MAN.. and the black man doesn't fit that bill!
O yeah! She wants a QUALITY NON-BLACK MAN. Cause there's no such thing as a QUALITY BLACK MAN. Plus, The white man is in far greater numbers and is of a BETTER STOCK, so why WASTE TIME LOOKING AT BLACK MEN!"
Menelik says:
brother/sister I think you'll find that if you unravel much of what Evia and Sara write, you'll soon realise that they were, in fact, Black-male supremacists who felt rejected by Black men for white, light, Latin and Bi-racial women (and now Asian females too).
They hit back by aggressively promoting white-male supremacy, and by extension, Black-male inferiority so as to disguise the fact they couldn't get the Black men of their choice.
Yeah, these women loath (innocent) white women (e.g. because they are white) mostly because they are represented (by white men!) as the very height of femininity.
Ir bloggers make a pact with the Devil in that it is hoped if they degrade Black men enough one of two things may happen:
(1) Black men will rise up and expose them as the self-loathing Black women they are;
(2) white men will impregnate them and give them a beautiful Bi-racial child to love unambiguously.
Believe me, these women love/hate Black men because we are deemed more desireable then are Black women in general. Nowhere on the planet are a group of men deemed more attractive than 'their' women folk as is the case with the slave-descended African-American community!
Man, that must really hurt those Black women who cannot even tolerate the kinks in their hair let alone their African features protruding prominently from their faces!
So white men and Bi-racial babies it is then lol
Menelik Charles
London England
Thanks for the comments Stephanie.
I am glad you can think independently.
Evia is helping black women get put in a corner. Opposed to using a different strategy.
Again, other races of women don't bash their own race of men. It doesn't help them in the long run and it just burns to many bridges.
It does not mean those women don't see problems within their race of men. They just don't go overboard with it.
If black women never knew the problems associated with black men. Either they are in a cave or very sheltered.
I am sure black women can think for themselves what choices would be good for them.
Unfortunately, some of our bad choices haunt us. Everybody makes mistakes in life. But if your dating a man you know is a player and you get with him.
Blame yourself. I am not talking about men that lie to you. Most men lie about something.
I am talking about men that really don't hide what they are doing.
Men are bad liars anyway. I can't lie out of anything.
Trust me I tried.
anon said:
"Evia should be ashamed for using pedophile Thomas Jefferson as an example, and stone cold racist Strom Thurmond... even Klan members will have sex with black women, so I wouldn't be proud of such liaisons".
Menelik says:
Evia is what most ir bloggers are: ahistorical, apolitical and amoral...she'd fuck a dog if it would assure a negative reaction from Black men!
She really is just totally obsessed with Black men!
I wished she'd truly 'divest' emotionally and never mention the words (or related words) Black men ever again!
She should just piss off and allow us Black men to stare in wonder at the awsome beauty that is the true (self-respecting) Black woman.
Peace
Menelik Charles
London England
Why So Few White Men Marry Black Women by Abagond
White men with black women are not as common in America as you might expect. Even though an eighth of American women are black, fewer than one married white man in 400 has a black wife! That cannot be an accident. Compare that to how many have Asian wives: about one in 100 - even though there are way fewer Asian women.
Given the numbers of white, black and Asian women there are in America and looking at who white men marry, you can work out how much they like different kinds of women as wives:
132: white women
100: American women in general
23: Asian women
2: black women
So why do so few white men marry black women?
Here are some reasons that you hear:
Lack of opportunity: Most white men live in a nearly all-white world. Most know only a few black women.
Lack of education in black women: White men look for women with the same level of education. That limits the number of black women they might date and marry even further.
Lack of good looks in black women: Most white men think black women are not all that good looking when compared to white women. That comes across in their phrase “good-looking for a black girl”. And you see it in their lists of beautiful women on the Internet: they have few if any black women and those they do have tend to be light-skinned. An amazing-looking black woman can walk right by a white man without him batting an eye.
Lack of friendliness of black women: White men tend to see black women as being hard to get along with - the Sapphire stereotype. It is just not worth the trouble.
Lack of acceptance among white friends and family: White men are afraid of what their friends or family will say. Whites are less accepting of mixed relationships, especially mixed marriages, than blacks are.
Lack of desire among black women: Among Americans, black women are the least likely to marry outside their race.
That last one is dead wrong. Look at the percentage of married Americans in 2006 who were married outside their race:
19.5 Asian women
8.4 black men
7.2 Asian men
3.6 black women
2.2 white men
1.9 white women
It is white people who stick most to their own kind, not black women - or even Asian men.
The other reasons have some truth to them, but notice how they never seem to blame white men.
They all avoid the simplest reason of all, the one that you hardly ever hear:
White men are racist: They do not want their sons and daughters to be black. Not because their parents are against it, not because their friends are against it, not because white society is against it - because they themselves are against it!
As white people put it, “What about the children?” As if it was some terrible thing to be black! Well, to a white racist it is.
Stephanie(La Reyna)
Also, why is Evia post loser/pedophile/married white men who had relationships with Black women as well as rapists and exploiters such as Mick Jagger, who wrote a hateful anti-Black woman song, Brown Sugar?
It makes no sense to me. Sounds like she's desperate. To be honest, while wm overwhelmingly marry ww by leaps and bounds, they also marry aw and hw at larger numbers, say 1 1/2 million of such women married to wm each year. By contrast, only 115,000 bw are married to wm every year. Explain the disparity, Evia?
Stephanie (La Reyna)
Dear Stephanie
That is so deep I am going to do a post about it soon.
It is concise and right to the point.
Sellout black women blame us for their lack of white male dating prospects.
How the hell that happen?
@Stephanie and Mr. Queens,
We have been discussing these issues on this blog frequently. I totally agree with you on all of the points. Women from those other blogs have the gall to accuse black women like Stephanie and myself, of discriminating against white men for not having a preference to date them, or state we are being "loyal ass kissers to MR. Queens because we agree with some of his sediments regarding white men and IR dating. Mr. Queens, it would be interesting to know how many marriages fail for black women who were married to black men, and than married white men with both unions ending in divorce.
Dear Ms Kitty
It is about 50 percent across the board. They say 40 percent for interracial couples.
An interesting statistic about college educated black men. Their unemployment rate is low (before the recession its higher now). My sociology professor told me this three years ago.
Can you tell me the unemployment rate for college educated black men with a Bachelor's degree.
He said less than a fraction of a percent.
I thought about that for years. I might get my Master's in Public Policy. I rather find solutions to bicker back and forth why the effect happens rather than the "cause". Obviously, black men have a lot work to do. I am aware of that.
College educated black men are involved their kids lives at a higher rate.
Also, are more than likely married longer than non college educated black men.
It seems to me education is important for the black male. For him to avoid being a statistic.
College is not always the solution. The data shows black men in college seem to being doing well even matched up against black women with similar education or higher education.
I am trying to figure where is the disconnect coming from.
By the way , not just black men are not going to college or not doing well. White men are falling in this category also.
More women are becoming educated while men are falling behind. The exception is Asian men.
Soon it will be just about black women lowering their standards. It is going to be can they find a man that can even get a job making at least 10 to 15 dollars an hour.
I read an article about poverty not being about money. It is more about support.
I have never made a high salary but I always managed to stay out of debt compared to my higher income friends. In particular, many highly educated black women are in tremendous debt.
The highly educated black women that are not in that amount of debt are MARRIED. Their husband tend to make less money than them and they live well.
Maybe, there will be more research on this.
Yea Ms Kitty I want to know what makes successful black marriages work. The central theme is the church. That plays a huge factor for some reason.
I am a christian but I am not a religious nut. I grew up in the Seventh Day Adventist Church now I go to Sunday Church my fiancee goes too.
Over the years as less men went to church. Shit got worse for black men. Then it spilled over to black women. I go to church it is filled with women and children.
Never a bad thing to say about their ex husbands or anything. That is real tragedy if you ask me. If interracial dating is the solution.
Coming to white men from a weak position is a sure sign your going to fail.
Most men what a confidant, strong, and smart woman. Jumping ship when things go bad. Means you will jump ship when things go bad with your white man.
What if he is struggling your going to say "Ah hell" I will move on.
At least make it seem like you liked the white man all along instead of a last resort
Hello Mr. Laurelton Queens,
I want you to read some of the haterade at Abagond regarding why so few white men marry black women:
http://abagond.wordpress.com/2008/06/25/why-so-few-white-men-marry-black-women/
Here's a few gems:
Robert Lindsay Says:
Sun 22 Mar 2009 at 23:32:49
I have my own reasons why so few White men marry Black women. In part it is racism, but in part it is also that White men just find Black women to be way too aggressive for them. On the part of Black women, I think a lot of them think that White men are wimps who are not masculine enough. Black women like Black men, and there is no one more masculine than a Black man. We White guys, macho as we can be, can’t hold a candle to Black guys. So there is a basic incompatibility there that is just not going to work out very well.
Also, of course, White men don’t want half-Black kids. Now, White women don’t mind half-Black kids, as you can see in any White town nowadays where you have some now-single White women who have mulatto kids by Black men that are usually long since gone.
As far as why White women don’t mind mulatto kids but White guys do, I am not so sure. Are White guys more racist than White women?
Understand that in the White male community there is still a big taboo about dating Black women. A lot of guys you had no idea were racist will let you know as soon as they see you with a Black women. If you’re out in public, the snickers from the racists will start. In the White community, White man with Black woman means “he couldn’t get a White woman (no White woman would want him) so he had to get a Black woman instead. It’s regarded that you are a complete loser for being with a Black woman, a total failure with White women.
So these are some of the things that are driving this. Not to mention relatives, etc.
BTW, I am seeing more and more of WM-BF thing these days, especially in urban areas out here in California.
The haterade from that same guy:
Robert Lindsay said:
Asian woman Black man is workable, but we are dealing with extremes. Asian women are extremely feminine and submissive, and Black males are super masculine and aggressive. Black males sure want their polar opposite in a female - an Asian woman, but she will be hard to get. Asian women probably find Black males to be so super aggressive that they are downright terrifying, and a lot of stereotypical Black male behaviors are going to be seen as so ultra masculine that Asian women will regard them as uncivilized.
and
At first I thought this was some crap blog put up by White Nationalists saying how White women are better than any other women on Earth, since, after all, they are White, and White folks are better than any other folks, especially those nasty Black folks.
But read around a bit, and things get really interesting. This is a blog made by Black males who are dedicated to the beauty and glory of the White female. There is a corresponding Yahoo group called The Pedestal, meaning they want to put White women on a pedestal and worship them.
Considering how many Black males treat their White female lovers like crap, I certainly think worshipping them is better than stealing from them, lying to them, locking them up like prisoners, raping them and beating them. I have known many White women with a thing for Black guys, and these are the stories you hear over and over. Heard so many times, you almost want to warn White women off.
And yet.
And yet.
We have White Meat. If written by White men, it would come off as chauvinist or probably racist crap. From a White woman, more narcissistic chirping and posing, as if we don’t get enough of that. But from Black men, there is something charming here. It can’t possibly be racist, it can only be…worshipful.
The comments are full of other Black men who worship the glory and beauty of our women, and from our unappreciated women smiling and warming in the spotlight. It’s an all-around feel-good, but it’s sure to make a White nationalist fume.
A good companion to White Meat is Abagond. Not exactly an intellectual blog, but definitely smart enough. A White man from the Caribbean, a dedicated anti-racist, marries a Black woman and starts a family with her. And makes a blog, the counterpart to White Meat, for White men dedicated to the glory and beauty of Black women.
Commenters are, once again in parallel to the other site, White males who like Black women and Black women who love to be appreciated. This site is even more strange because it is full of Black women who are steaming, stomping and smoking mad at White men, yet they long to meet, marry and have kids with one.
Most of them say that they really want a Black man, Black women being the most racially loyal of any group, but there are way too many Black women and way too few decent Black men, and a lot of, especially the educated and cultured, Black women are getting tired of waiting out their lives in spinsterhood.
This sexual lopsidednes in the Black community has given rise to such peculiar institutions as “man-sharing”, degrading as it is to Black women.
Though I have dated several Black women myself (and nearly married one of them), I am not sure if I will again. My experiences have been pretty negative. Cynical, using, gold-digging, steal your last dollar, whore mentality does not even begin to do justice.
A lot of Black women are utterly cynical about men, think we are all no-good dogs, and think they should use their vaginas to milk every single last nickel out of our wallets. I had one Black girlfriend who would not even allow me to visit her unless I was going to take her out and waste some money on her, and often there wasn’t even any sexual payback on her end. She wasnt’ even charging me for sex, she was charging me for her damn time.
Black women in general like the extreme masculinity of Black men, and it’s true that macho as we can be, White men are just not as masculine as Black men. So Black women tend to see us as wimpy and even faggy. I don’t know about the rest of you guys, but I sure don’t appreciate that.
On the other hand, Asian women will treat the same guy the Black woman thinks is a disgusting, meek and wimpy queer like he’s Paul fucking Bunyan. Compared to Asian guys, I guess he is. I like women who make me feel like a man, masculinity being very important to my identity (I note this because I am convinced there are guys to whom masculinity is just not a big deal).
Reading through the comments from the Black women on Abagond’s site, I wanted to run for the door. Yeah, they were scary. If that makes me a wuss, fine, I’m a wuss. The frequent comments about our small dicks and how having a White lover means a Black woman might have to forego sexual satisfaction were particularly stinging. If that’s the way they feel, they’re losing my sympathy. Keep up with the man-sharing, buy a quality vibrator, or discover bisexuality.
and here's the kicker:
The Fake White Slavemaster Black Slave Rape Epidemic
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This about sums it up. Written by a liberal Caribbean White man, ferociously anti-racist, who is also married to a Black woman. I really dig this guy’s blog. He really goes beyond standard anti-racist crap and dares to tackle a lot of really controversial issues. Like just about zero humans in the anti-racist movement (this blog is part of that movement), he seems to be on a movement for the truth. Shout out.
One of the conceits of the militant Black movement in the US (in practice, that means most US Blacks) is that they are convinced there was some evil White rape epidemic against Indians and Black women. According to this hate Whitey line, White men are the biggest rapists in the past 500 years, or I guess ever. The whole history of White men has been a history of rape of Indian and Black women.
When a Black woman looks in the mirror, she sees centuries of violence, of rape, evil rape, in her veins, in her soul, in her genes. This was a sexist campaign of extermination against Black women. We White dudes conspired to pollute their illustrious and Nobel Prize winning Black gene pool! Such a crime against humanity! And we thought we were just “mejorando la raza” as they call marrying and breeding up-White in Latin America.
What’s curious about all of this is that White dudes pretty much stopped raping Black chicks altogether in recent years. Most of you have seen the figures that drive White nationalists into conniptions. 37,000 White women raped by Blacks every year. Zero Black women raped by White men every year. So, the greatest rapists that ever lived have suddenly knocked it off for decades now.
What happened? For one thing, it’s not legal anymore. At one time, it was about legal for a White to rape a Black woman, and maybe for a Black man too. No one cared. Black female victims did not count.
An interesting figure is that by 1865, 75% of US Blacks were yet unmixed. Yeah, some rape epidemic. Any Latin American country can do better than that. Now, supposedly 75% of US Blacks got some White in dey veins. Now, how’s abouts did dats happen? I figger a lot of sexin of White guys and Black ladies afta 1865. Mostly consensual, too, I bet.
There is a phrase in the South that women cringe at. It’s called “splitting the Black Oak”. It means that young single White guys, back in the day, before sex was free and all that, would go lose their virginity and become a man by sexing a Black girl or lady. They lived on the other side of town and no doubt could be had for a price. Women and girls have never given it away for free too much, sadly.
At the time, loose White chicks were probably in short supply in the South, and most single White women were probably virgins. So you want to pop your cherry, you head over to the dark side of the tracks. Probably not much raping going on here. Black women were very poor and probably screwing White was moving up in the world, as it is to this day. White men offered money, favors, whatever men always do. Black women were happy to trade.
Much of the fake rape epidemic occurred from about 1830 on. After slavery was outlawed, it was awfully costly to go buy yourself a slave. By 1830 or so, 30% of workers in the fields were White “wage slaves” working for hourly wages alongside Black slaves. By 1860, it was 70%. Slaves by that time were largely contained to the largest plantations. No one else could afford one.
The Civil War, like Sendero’s rebellion in Peru in the 1980’s, was a race against time. Slavery was dying anyway. By the Civil War, a slave cost $60,000 in today’s dollars. Few could afford one. We have many reports of owners distressed about White workers having sex with Black female slaves, often for money or various favors. These women were slaves, and they needed every break they could get.
It’s well-known that many slave owners had mulatto mistresses, often to the wife’s consternation. She was a kept woman. For a slave, this was moving up in the world bigtime. No doubt it was voluntary on the part of many female house Negroes.
The same Black women who scream that we White guys are the Greatest Rapists That Ever Lived also fume that we say Black women are “unrapeable”. The ultimate insult. Cognitive disconnect anyone? These same Black women fuming about the White male as the most evil creature that ever stalked the Earth openly admit that they want to marry and have kids with a White man.
Go figure.
THE PROBLEM IS THAT ABAGOND IS A BLACK MAN, NOT A WHITE MAN. WHERE ARE THE SOMETHING NEW CROWD CRITICIZING THAT RACIST IDIOT? NOWHERE TO BE FOUND
LA REYNA
Dear La Reyna
Everything you write about is true. I watched the history of the "slave catcher". Poor white men who did not have a plantation where used as slave catchers.
Actually it was a big industry to catch runaway slaves. The cotton industry and slavery was the life blood of the south.
That is why the founding fathers tried to get moral about the peculiar institution of slavery but never let any of their slaves go until they died.
How noble of them.
Now Hollywood is trying to cash in on the interracial craze by black women. The only problem is America is not just Cali and New York.
Not everyone is open to black women with white men.
I have observed white women reactions to black women on both sides. Whether a white woman is with a black man or white man.
White women tend to "look down" on black women.
I see this dynamic at work and my night classes.
There is always tension for some reason. When a black woman has a high degree everybody has to know about it.
White women could have the same degree but never broadcast it.
Another thing I notice, white women lives revolve their spouse or husband. They have to let you know about their husband how great he is.
Black women rarely talk about their husband if they have one. It almost like they have to hide their husband from other black women.
I also notice that married black women, which is few in the workplace. Join in on the black man bashing even though they have A BLACK HUSBAND.
I guess they just want to fit in. I could never understand that. You don't sit there and agree that all men are dogs and your married.
I think that might be the problem. Black women that are married. I guess they feel like they don't want to "preach" other black women on what they are doing wrong.
I call it the Juanita Bynum syndrome. These black women seem to have it all together. Church, career, kids, husband in the church. Then it just comes crumbling down.
I remember I went to church in NYC. Linden Church in Jamaica Queens.
This popular church lady in our church got burned up. I mean disfigured. People was afraid to look at her.
Her husband had to be convinced to stay with her. You know how church gossips.
I know some black girls are going to say he "wrong" for wanting to leave.
Well your not in the situation and prior to her getting burned she had the "life". I use to see the lady sit with her husband for 10 years every Sat. She was an attractive older lady too.
Just because you think life is going good for you. God forbid something happens.
That goes for those sellout black girls that think the grass is greener on the other side.
Menelik says:
I think La Reyna makes some awfully good points and in a nice, concise fashion. However, towards then end he does go off on a bit of historical revisionism...but we'll let it pass!
La Reyna said:
"THE PROBLEM IS THAT ABAGOND IS A BLACK MAN, NOT A WHITE MAN. WHERE ARE THE SOMETHING NEW CROWD CRITICIZING THAT RACIST IDIOT? "
Menelik asks:
where is your evidence indicating Abagond is a Black man? He always 'felt' like a white man to me...not least of all because of the manner in which he appreciates the aesthetic beauty of Black women.
Menelik Charles
London England
Menelik,
I didn't think he was a white man, I thought he was a Black man. Maybe I was mistaken because he never shows his picture nor stated his racial identity to the world.
La Reyna
Hi La Reyna,
well he claims to be a white man and I have to say that his manner of 'speaking' is, shall we say, 'white'!
But what convinces me most is that his love and respect for Black women not only appears unambigous but also strangely way 'objective' insofar as he has no axe to grind with white women.
In short, he just seems like a really nice white guy who most Black men would be suspicious of, including myself, but end up liking 'loads' as we say in the UK.
Menelik Charles
London England
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