Man I am back in the blog studio.
I know some of my readers were like the haters shut you down. I took a little vacation to think about the topics I want to talk about. Normally, I would just put out something to pacify my readers. I decided. I will only write when I feel a topic motivates me. Obviously, young black girls prostituting in nothing new in the black community. The sellout black women will never address this because the "nice white man" will run from them. It is easier to address the frivolous issues. Then to tackle real problems in the "hood".
As you can see in this video, she says an older white man spanked her in his truck for 50 dollars "time marker 8:00-9:00. So the precious white man getting black female prostitutes in the street 'OH NO" that would never happen at all. They love and respect black women right???????????
I don't know which is more disturbing, the fact she fucked for 50 dollars or the strange white man that paid her 50 dollars. I mean damn, the mighty white man can only spare 50 dollars for a teenage black girl's "cookie". You think this white man would dare give a white girl 50 dollars. You got to be crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is not an isolated case. This rampant prostitution is becoming acceptable for the black community. I can talk to the most educated black women in the street and most are "liberal" on it. They see nothing wrong selling your body if you are down and out. It all depends on how the "man treats you". So they get offended if the man says "come here whore" I paid you now, do your job. They get upset over that. But if a man is nice to them and propositions them , oh then it is acceptable. I will keep it real with you, some women are just freaks. I have been to 1 Swing party (never participated). But you would be surprised how freaky some black women are. I will get into that another time.
Look at the video she tries to rationalize recruiting other young black girls to sell their ass. Her only regret was getting caught. She is not sorry she did it. It is the mindset that is disturbing.
Now I don't just blame the young girls. There are sharks out there that prey on poor black girls that never quite finished high school or are struggling because they had kids young. You got black women now just living with a man because she got no alternative. My fiancee called her homegirl. She was like "girl you got your own place yet". She said "na". Then my fiancee got testy with her and said "who do you live with"? She said "my homeboy". My fiancee was like "do you work"? She said "na". She hung up on her and was like "damn i hate people that are in the same situation they was in back in the day. It was funny to me but made sense. These so called independent black women, yea independent when a man is paying their bills. You need to stop it!
This whole idea Evia and her "followers" preach to their readers is similar to a pimp. Make it look like the white man will take care of them. All they have to do is sexually fulfill the white man and never "question" what he does. The focus is on pleasing the white man. The same white men that pay 50 dollars for a young black prostitute.
It is really a savage life in the hood. This is new to me, that black women are pimping other black women now. Usually, the pimps were black men. These young black girls are really sexually aggressive. They will think nothing of giving you their number and flirting with you.
In many of my posts I make reference to sellout black women indirectly prostituting themselves to white men. They never say they love the white man. They normally do not care about his well being. They will write a blog that will mention black men 100 times in it before they mention their white husband or boyfriend. Yet, they can lecture me on what a "real man is". Sometimes, I just listen to the pure fuckery. You lecturing me about what a real man is. Where is your white man at while you are writing to me! In the backyard with a leash on his neck!
I was reading Rocky's blog, and he mentions how black women use to brag that they were 'Independent" and etc. Now that we are in a recession. Where is all the tough talk about being "independent and not needing any man in their life. The same ones that mention that they don't need no man be the first ones to 'sell their ass".
It's all the same to me no matter how you sugar coat it. If you need your bills paid and you sleeping with a man that is prostitution. If you sleep with your boss for a raise you are a damn prostitute.
They are even indirectly prostituting themselves to white men at these interracial seminar. Wearing the tightest dress, putting their make up on, and incessantly walking back and forth for attention. Someone asked me if I was jealous of the interracial seminar. I said no because some black women are naive like that. Why would I be jealous?
All you really need is money to be honest with you. Some women say it's not about the money. But guess what, they won't rule it out. You read the Pia Glenn story, do I have to prove my point?
Black women fail to understand if continue this "bird behavior" they will never have a man that will take them serious. They compromise their values to fast. Men do test women and black women constantly get a failing grade.
Anyway, Tyra Banks did a good segment. I think the problem will actually get worse. The fact a white man can pay a young black girl 50 dollars for sex shows you how desperate some black women are. I don't knock her for taking the 50 dollars. What probably happened was the other girls selling their ass was doing it for 50 dollars too. The young black girl must have been like "damn" this is all I can get! They don't even know basic marketing and math. If you are going to prostitute be GOOD AT IT. I will never say what these women do are wrong and right. We all do bad things at some point in our lives.
I can compare this to the sellout black women bloggers. They will easily sell each other out for a man (CW prime example). They hardly stick to their principles. They are constantly fighting each other because they can't come to a common consensus concerning their message..
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Dear Andrew,
I'm glad to see your back! I was wondering where you went. You've been M.I.A for the past couple of days.
" Obviously, young black girls prostituting in nothing new in the black community."
It's an epidemic, to be sexually active at age 15 is no longer taboo or unacceptable. I didn't get a chance to see the Tyra show due to the time she comes on and the time I get home. It sounded like a good episode.
" Make it look like the white man will take care of them. All they have to do is sexually fulfill the white man and never "question" what he does."
That's a load of crap, I don't think that sex is all there is in a relationship. You should be able to offer more than a great orgasm. I guess it was just different for me, I was celibate so having sex to get and keep a man wasn't in the books. How I am as a person got me married, not how I was in bed.
" This is new to me that black women are pimping other black women now. Usually the pimps were black men. "
Pimping either way is bad, no matter who's doing it. I actually feel bad for these young ladies. They all clearly have no one who cares enough about their well being to step in and see that they lead the right life.
" Some women say it's not about the money. But guess what they won't rule it out."
I speak for no one else but I don't think it's about the money. I just always prefer to be with a man who was stable. Stability is what I feel is needed in a relationship. If your unstable as a individual, than we as a couple would be unstable.
When you dating things are different. Married life is the complete opposite. Though most love to come in stable with things working our perfectly in the long run it won't. Unlike dating, you just don't break up because of a little bump in the road.
" I have to go , that Precious post is coming."
I'm looking forward to it. I loved the books "Push" , I thought the author did one hell of a job showing the struggling of this young lady. It's really an inspiring novel, so many young girls are going through this every day. It makes you look twice at how fortunate you were as a child growing up.
I was going to see the movie but reading the books was hard enough, I don't think my heart could handle seeing it on screen.
-Julia McDaniels
Omg you are sick. You do know that most teenage prostitutes were sexually abused as children. I work with teen prostitutes and plenty of them come in all colors. I can't believe you are labeling teen black girls "fast". What do teen prostitutes have to do with ir dating? You should not be a teacher. Your hate for black girls and women is disturbing. I work in PA with disadvantaged children and if I come into contact with you, I will report you and have you fired. You are a sick evil man. What type of adult man makes fun of these poor girls?
Julia why do you post here when it's clear that this man hates bw and bw in ir relationships?
wow, you are such a black man! really you are! these poor girls are obviously confused and hurt, and instead of feeling bad for them. you put them down! just like the black man. quick to stab the black woman in the back, never there to be by her side
Dear Julia
I am glad for your comments.
The anonymous are a joke to me. Report me how?
Tyra Banks did the show and I commented on it.
Why don't you pull your gun on Tyra Banks. She is exploiting these girls. Last time I heard she ain't bailing out that girl in the video. She ain't giving them any money to be on her show. But you won't do that pussy!
As for reporting me, report me for what?
I don't work with troubled girls. I work with troubled boys lol.
As for this issue that these girls have been abused, what does abuse have to do with you selling your body. These girls are aware of what they are doing.
They actively seek this lifestyle. I may consider their background as part of a reason for why they do it.
I wouldn't let them off the hook with the authorities.
Apparently, you ain't doing shit to help these teenage black girls get off the street. But you allegedly work with teen prostitutes. What are you really doing?
I welcome you reporting me and debating this topic!
When you see me in PA, Williamsport. Pull that trigger quick because you already know I will pull mine without hesitation.
I an entitled to my opinion when a topic goes public dumbass!
I will say it to your face too! I don't hide from anybody!
You are hiding under anonymous names. LOL My name is clear to see.
I will keep speaking out about this going on in the black community.
These sellout black girls rather attack the messenger than the white man that paid the girl 50 dollars!
WHY DON'T YOU PULL THE GUNS ON THE JOHNS WHEN YOU SEE THIS HAPPENING!
All you really want to do is counsel the girls right?
Everybody know what I am about. Ask the last craigslist coward that saw me. All he said "oh why do you write those things". I was like yea "what are you going to do about it"? He didn't say nothing.
I don't duck anybody!
I plan to expand too.
Sorry for some of my readers that had to see this. Obviously, I try to limit the threats. It comes with the territory. LOL
Oh yea, you have a nice day.
Anyway
Let me respond to Julia.
It always surprises me the reaction I get on my blogs.
Julia you made reference to this being an "epidemic". It sure is an "epidemic". But the mainstream media says nothing about it.
I saw the Tyra Banks show and I was shocked. Everybody mad at me for saying my honest opinion. But Tyra banks wanted the juicy details. She never said " Oh I am going to help y'all". Just because Tyra Banks puts on that "sad" face" does not mean she give a damn about those girls.
Tyra pimping then again lol.
See that is the difference between me and other bloggers. I am comfortable in my skin to the point death threats never bother me. Bad enough society does not want to confront black men.
Do you actually think I am afraid of someone actually seeing me. Be careful what you wish for because you just might just get it.
Dear Julia I suspected you were celibate before you said it. I told Mrs Kitty that privately. I can see you getting easily attached to a man.
Yea you mention nobody stepping in raising these girls. Apparently nobody cares that it was young black girls pimping other young black girls.
It is interesting this post caused such a strong reaction.
Maybe one of these sellout black girls sold their ass a a teenager and they are lashing out.
It is very deep.
There is a documentary out called "Very Young Girls". Go an watch it, it will open your eyes to reality. Sometimes you really need to think before you start spouting off wih your crazy ideas. The Prostitution of young black girls has absolutely nothing to do with the 'sell-out' movement.
Dear Anonymous
I said they were correlated in the way sellout black women recruit other black men to be concubines to white men.
I plan to watch that documentary that you have mentioned.
I also watched "Born in Brothels". I have seen many documentaries on the subject.
The way I come across may seem insensitive but I basically say what people are thinking.
When she said she had sex for 50 dollars by a white man and she felt dirty.
That is tragic but funny to me. 50 dollars and you mad about what I say about it.
You should be mad at the white man paying this little girl 50 dollars to have sex with her.
I really won't apologize for my blog.
They need to be ashamed of what they are doing. These older black women seem to think this is acceptable and it slowly creeping in the mindset of young black girls.
I remember to this middle aged black woman. Actually many of them in New York. They wouldn't think twice to sell their body "if they were down and out". Let me clarify that. "Down and out".
I sort of shrugged and was like "you have to do what you have to do".
It's a touchy subject that is why I get so much heat for it.
I am well aware a majority of black women have been in those situations. They won't admit here or to ANYONE.
But see I tackle the tough topics. When people do blogs, they tend to worry about what "people" think.
I am far removed from that. That is why I can remain objective.
I never said I was right. I just tell you what my immediate reaction was watching Tyra Banks show. I tell you what I was "thinking at the time".
Like wow you are fucking for 50 dollars.
Tyra asked the girl how much she fucked for. Now you tell why you are not mad at Tyra Banks?
lol
like I said at Rocky's blog, that awful anon will not leave Black men alone. She is obsessed like a mad dog with a bone!
Sure, Andrew gets stuff wrong but that is not the point. Fact is whether Black men are right or wrong, the Black female anons wont leave em alone1
their hearts are truly ugly!
It is a known FACT that approximately HALF of all black teenaged girls in America have sexually transmitted diseases. That is absolutely horrific and a portal to HIV/AIDS.
What stuff I get wrong?
I am pretty accurate 90 percent of the time.
I try my best to be as accurate as possible.
Anonymous is correct that half of teenage black girls have STDS. Not to think prostitution is not involved that would be naive.
I don't think a segment of young girls get STDS sleeping with "one man". See the media never addresses this.
They will just say half of black girls got STDS. But they won't dig deeper. Because the more you dig deeper the more you expose the underbelly of society.
You will see the poverty and what "forces" girls in prostitution.
Instead they rather attack me like the problem is going to go away.
SHH stop talking about it because it will go away.
They are just as worse at the people that take advantage of these young girls.
They think social services and counseling is simply the answer.
I work in the social service and mental health field.
I read what is the standard procedure for cases like this.
I follow the procedures but I think they are ineffective.
In the near future when I am in a position of power. I will overhaul this system. I believe in "tough love".
I don't believe in rewarding teenagers for bad behavior.
I had this discussion with a MT (Mobile therapist) A muslim black woman and an old white woman (Case worker).
They give up on the young kids. My approach is different. The kids will call these people on me because "they can't stand me".
I am not here to be liked. I am here to change your life around.
I don't give a fuck about my critics because they are not out there "like me".
Most of the time it's the parents that are not involved. They have to work long hours so they can't keep track of their kids.
I think people have this idea that I don't grow. I grow everyday.
I read the training modules on how to deal with people with "behavior problems and other issues".
My blog only captures about 20 percent of my life. Maybe less!
When people say well I am going to get you fired from working with troubled kids.
They are either painfully stupid or unaware. My company NEEDS people because nobody want to help black kids. That is real talk.
They may do it for awhile and then they got "worn down". I love the drama that's why I like this job.
I get satisfaction in trying to figure out how to make this kid successful despite their turbulent backgrounds.
I listen to some of the black women and white women at work when it comes to doing the job.
In my mind, I am trying to incorporate my ideas with their experience and training.
I am from the hood, I feel my experience makes me more than qualified to figure out these kids.
Good day and be glad you talked to me man.
Most blog owners don't say shit when people go against them.
They rather comment when people just agree with them all the time.
I will engage people even if they dislike me.
@ Anon, November 5, 2009 3:02 AM
"your so sick. well we know you live in queens and what you do for a living. and your name so with somne research, i will find you and I would love for your to tell me all that you say in my face. lets see how brave you are with a gun to your head."
Why don't you go put that gun to your white boy's head. The same white boy buying your sista for 50 bucks.
@Anon, November 4, 2009 10:15 PM
Omg you are sick. You do know that most teenage prostitutes were sexually abused as children. I work with teen prostitutes and plenty of them come in all colors. I can't believe you are labeling teen black girls "fast". What do teen prostitutes have to do with ir dating? You should not be a teacher. Your hate for black girls and women is disturbing. I work in PA with disadvantaged children and if I come into contact with you, I will report you and have you fired. You are a sick evil man. What type of adult man makes fun of these poor girls?
If laurelton did hate black women and girls, he would be deleting you every time u posted something. I bet u dont post anything critical of sara and evia on their blogs. Oh, what a lot of hatred awaits u. Your fellow hatemonger interracial evangelists would heap burning coal upon ur head and cut u off in a minute.
Thanks for the defense.
They say I hate black women and black little girls.
They act like I made up that segment Tyra Banks did.
I don't propose to know what is in Tyra Banks head. But clearly nobody has come down on her.
I know damn well my daughter wouldn't be saying to a talk show host that she had sex for 50 dollars.
Even if it did happen. There is certain things the public does not need to know. Plus the girl face is all over the television to add to the humiliation.
Why do I have to be the one to say "something is wrong with this".
Why nobody pulling the gun on the white man paying 50 dollars for her. It is almost like they condone this behavior.
They might blame her for enticing the white men to pay the 50 dollars.
Look Evia and Sara will never talk about this. They rather these young sexually abused girls "fade away". So they don't interfere with them throwing themselves at white men.
I call them sellouts for a reason.
Dear Andrew,
" The anonymous are a joke to me. Report me how?"
I don't know. It's beyond the point of annoying, we are all adults here. If they can't act like one than maybe they should leave.
" As for this issue that these girls have been abused, what does abuse have to do with you selling your body. These girls are aware of what they are doing."
I'm no social worker but from what I've heard young girls who are sexually abused as a child do grow up to be very sexual. Many aren't given the right care to prevent them from entering this life and sex becomes the only thing they know.
Especially from ages 9 and up. Most girls become women around that age and are "discovering" themselves and are curious about things, being sexually abused only enhances it.
" Julia you made reference to this being an "epidemic". It sure is an "epidemic". But the mainstream media says nothing about it."
In my humble opinion, mainstream media doesn't care about anyone. All they are looking for is money and if you can bring them money, they might show a hint of concern but if you don't, you mind as well be dead in their minds.
" But Tyra banks wanted the juicy details. She never said " Oh I am going to help y'all"."
I agree, I rarely watch her show but when I do catch it she's giving money for someone to get a sex change rather than giving money for a girl to get off the streets and out of a life of poverty and prostitution.
" Dear Julia I suspected you were celibate before you said it. I told Mrs Kitty that privately. I can see you getting easily attached to a man."
You did? Well obviously I'm no longer celibate but I was before I got married. My cousins always told me I had this naive thing to me. I never got what they meant but clearly other people can see it.
I'm attached in a sense where once I fall in love with you , that's it. Luckily for me, the first guy I ever really loved end up becoming my husband. So I don't know what it's like to really get your heart broken or become so attached to the point where you can't and won't let go despite the circumstances.
Rewind for a second, You and Ms. Kitty were talking about me?
" Yea you mention nobody stepping in raising these girls. Apparently nobody cares that it was young black girls pimping other young black girls."
I care. Young black girls do pimp other girls but a vast majority of pimps are still men and I don't think it will ever change. Despite the new trend of female pimps.
Either way, pimping is bad. My heart breaks at seeing anyone get pimped, rather it be a boy or girl. There should be more organizations to help these young kids. A lot of them are run a ways who are given a home and food to eat in exchange for their bodies.
-Julia McDaniels
Dear Anonymous,
" Julia why do you post here when it's clear that this man hates bw and bw in ir relationships?"
Affiliation? As you might know, my husband used to comment on here. I , of course never did comment and was pretty hesitant about logging on. As I explain to many people, I was drawn in by the Justin Volpe story, from there I just stayed commenting here and there.
My days are number now that I'm with child and due soon. I do find this blog enjoyable and I can see why Mike liked it, though there seems to be tilted scales, overall it's good.
I've find the people on here give me more respect and fairness despite their dislike for my relationship, compared to Sara who treated me like a child but says she's for the cause of Black Women who date out. Yet I was single out and humiliated because I didn't agree.
Thank you for your concern though. It's greatly appreciated.
Have a nice night Anonymous.
-Julia McDaniels
evia and Sarah have nothing to do with teen girls prostituting themselves, it seems like you live in the ghetto since you think the majority of bw are selling themselves. Some stated before that these girls are sexually abused. I am still a virgin and the majority of my black friends are virgins. You have remeber that not all bw are ghetto like your fiancé. Doesent she have two kids oow? She also was in jail and a high school dropout right? Pathetic.
Julia don't you sense the anti bw mood here? He mocks be in general even thoose who have said nothing about black men
Andrew you are not putting the gun to this. You are mocking a serious situation. If you are so concerened what are you doing about besides b!tching about evia and Sarah who have nothing to do with this
Just to add evia and sarah advocate MARRIAGE. Evia herself said that bw should withhold sex until they are married. You just makeup stuff about these women. Didn't you make a post admiring Kim the white girl from the real housewives of Atlanta who is sleeping with a MARRIED man for money. You need to get a life. You care way too much about black women.9
Funny thing, over at Evia and Sara's they're attacking black men, over here Andrew it's black women in the firing line. All this drama over white men!
SMH
I'd have a big ego if I was a white guy
SMH
Let me respond to false comments.
I never cosigned for Kim from Real Housewives. From my understanding the rich white man left her ass.
Evia advocated black women go after married white man. She implied you must use "stealth" to get a white man. Basically advocating black women be mistresses.
My blog is really geared to all black women. You mentioned not all black women are in the ghetto. You are correct. But middle class to upper class black women must realize there are "ghetto black women'.
Just because a black woman is ghetto does not make immune to the stereotypes. As for my fiancee, she grew up in the ghetto, never really had parents and went down the wrong path in life. She has been prison.
She came along when I was getting out of a relationship with my ex lawyer girlfriend. I was content on being alone. But since she compliments my life. She is not a burden to me and she is more of a asset.
I found many black women who had degrees or were "the whole package" were in dire straights due to student loans" or were to controlling.
I always will remain the same person. They couldn't change me and my fiancee does not want to change me. So we fit good. Anyway, I am content with my relationship.
You happen to be anti black woman. Apparently, black women like my fiancee do not measure up to your standards. Therefore you make you sly remarks.
It doesn't bother me because I got a degree and I make good money. It wouldn't really matter to me what a woman does because I am a Leo. I just feel I can handle things regardless of the circumstances.
I had women with degrees who lived with their momma or roomates. My fiancee was actually on her own since 16 and managed to survive until 35 with little education and low paying jobs.
Some people don't respect that. I can respect that.
LOl Merri
It really has nothing to do with the white man. Sellout black women will just do anything to get our attention. White men think black women is giving up the goods because they dislike black men.
If I was a white man seeing sellout black women bicker with black men. I would take the sex and just drop them and find another woman.
What has their bickering got them. White men are not marrying black women at a rapid rate. Then they say they will "with hold" sex until marriage lol. Yea, way to draw white men to you lol.
Off the computer you wouldn't really see the contempt that much. You can always throw rocks at the pitbull when he is behind the fence.
But when the pitbull breaks that fence and comes after you. All of a sudden their tune changes.
What I find disturbing is the sellout black women "speaking for white men". It bizarre, they actually say "white men love me" I know this.
You know what?????
Simply delusional.
Just because you are waiting until marriage for sex. Does not mean men have to wait too.
I was having sex before you decided to be a virgin. You can keep on waiting.
Another form of control of course this talk about no sex before marriage. Go black mail some other sucker!
Before I go, I do know some black women are virgins. But if you are going to broadcast it to a man prepare to take a loss. Now if you never mention it and let the relationship develop than you got a fair chance. I am starting to notice a trend with black women "not mentioning" their virgins. I thought that was very smart.
Just some sound advice.
Good day lol
In London I see young black girls that have basically given up, it's like they know they have no power in English society, save for their sexual prowess.They sure as heck would never clean up after white people or raise their rug rats.
Wasn't it white men that gave us the reputation for being wild in bed, i think black girls use that to get out of whatever hole they live in. With the posh white boys they can name their price.
Black women here are still very much a fetish to many white men, and yes there are also many that genuinely are attracted and marry black women.
I went to a black neighbourhood here in London(Brixton: only the Jamaicans and Ghanains do a decent blowdry on my hair, lol) this past weekend, and while it's an up and coming area, it's still working class and very black, maybe some smatterings of newly arrived Eastern European immigrants. London can be segregated like that.
I was saddened to overhear a conversation between local black women encouraging one rather attractive lady with a heavily accented street vernacular to get a white man. The type of girl who wouldn't even get as far as the white guy's friends, she's that embarassing when she opens her mouth.
At times it happens that she 'hooks' a white guy that he marries her and she takes him to the cleaners.Often he's much older, they're old and easier to manipulate. In between blowdries I heard an older mammy type coaching the black girls on how to snag a white man.
Its African girls that get the white boys though.Western black girls are too angry, they have chips on their shoulders, so says a white colleague.
It's usually the awkward type of white guy that will actually brave the wrath of black men to go into Brixton, if he's interested enough in black girls. Those I think I'll give credit to, Brixton can be a scary place.
The posh boys will go for the attractive 'scholar' in the salon, they can buy her to come to their neighbourhood, and are set up in upmarket apartments.
The fact is white men in London like to sleep with black women. I read a story in a right wing newspaper recently, a black Madam runs an upmarket brothel for the upper classes,her girls are all black, she has a son with a Lord.
Black girls read this and feed into it. The elections are coming up so she was cashing in on an old client,some big shot in the Conservative party.
Sometimes I don't know if i blame these girls for trying to get a foot into a world that will never take them seriously, like you said Andrew, at least excell(sp?) at it and be choose your white men.I've seen where they come from and it's not pretty.
Europe is quite liberal, white men are more open to dating/marrying black women. To some, a white man is a meal ticket, but I've seen some of these women gradually learn to love these men.
It struck me that on one end you have your 'sellout' black women bloggers, lecturing perhaps the economically loftier sisters, and on the other, the Madams and the ghetto girls they can school and refine, lecturing them how to get their lords. They call it beating them at their own game. You want to hurt a white guy, it's his pocket. : smh:
@Queens,
Prostitution is an epidemic in all commumities. I do agree with you that these older black women are contributing to the problem in the black community by encouraging these younger girls that this is okay to sell yourself for pennies on the dollar. These mothers are failing their own daughters as well because many of them are too busy chasing after men instead of raising their children. Why don't these sellout black women have seminars on self esteem, education, and legitimate job opportunities to get these young girls ready for their careers? Queens, you nor any other black men on this blog has never stated they hate black women. Sellout black women are on the offense when it comes to black men, but they will defend white men to the bitter end, regardless to how much they may demean or mistreat them.
Dear Andrew,
" I found many black women who had degrees or were "the whole package" were in dire straights due to student loans" or were to controlling. "
A lot of people have student loans. Only someone with a high school diploma would have zero student loans. In today's society you can't survive with a high school diploma, so avoiding women who have college loans is impossible.
" White men think black women is giving up the goods because they dislike black men."
I truly believe it's an ego thing. I married a white guy and being around him and his brothers, you can definitely see a ego thing around there. The idea of women at their feet is satisfying to them. I won't put this behavior or way of thinking past any other white guy.
" Just because you are waiting until marriage for sex. Does not mean men have to wait too."
I respect your way of thinking but I think it's rather shallow and proves feminist point of men being horn dogs. Thus why I end up with the guy I did, a lot of men don't respect the idea of celibacy .If I'm not a prude, I'm a whore in your eyes.
" Another form of control of course this talk about no sex before marriage. Go black mail some other sucker!"
It's not control. I see it more as testing his loyalties. I can't make you stay but I won't give into your plea's and break my vow. I wouldn't call it blackmail, it's kind of sad that a man would give up on a girl because she doesn't want to have sex. You'll miss out on great woman thinking that way.
" But if you are going to broadcast it to a man prepare to take a loss. Now if you never mention it and let the relationship develop than you got a fair chance."
It works with some people, I waited to tell Michael but I had a previous boyfriend who I wait a couple of months to tell and he broke up with me.
It's a risk you take, being celibate isn't easy and many men don't respect the idea of a girl wanting to save herself for marriage. They all want to hit it and quit it.
I lucked out with my husband. He comes from a traditional catholic family so the idea of celibacy is practiced and respected a lot more.
-Julia McDaniels
Dear MsKitty,
" These mothers are failing their own daughters as well because many of them are too busy chasing after men instead of raising their children."
It's a joint effort. My father was there to tell us how to act around men and how he didn't want any whores for daughters. Though my mom contributed, my dad was the main person who taught us how to respect ourselves, so one day a man could respect us the same way. My mother just did the specifics.
" Why don't these sellout black women have seminars on self esteem, education, and legitimate job opportunities to get these young girls ready for their careers?"
I'm guilty of that crime but so are you. There are homes and organizations that can and will help these young girls. I don't physically participate but I do donate when I get a chance.
I think that seminars are just all talk, in situations like this you need more action. They are good for getting the word out but you need a hands on approach.
-Julia McDaniels
@Julia,
I am not the one who is in an IR relationship and constantly complaining about black men and blaming them for my problems. Whatever gulit issues that are a problem for you , are not a problem, for me. Also, it is not my personal responsibility to raise someone else's children. Don't get yourself pregnant, if you are not willing to be a full time parent.
julia is not black. she is a latin or white chick. wow, thanks laurelton for making non black women feel that they are better than us justlike a DBRBM
@Queens,
There is no honor among sellout black women. They can't even agree to disagree with each other. Anonymous keeps referring to you as "nigger". Well, that is exactly how white men view sellout black women when they are pissing and crapping all over them because they accepted a lousy $50 from them to turn tricks.
Let me respond.
I don't want to give the impression that educated black women are not dating material or even marriage material. I do think there is a level of control they want. Sometimes their egos make they feel they are above their spouse.
So they say men are intimidated by them when it is really not the case. A man may have a passion for something else while you dwell on academics.
Merri made some interesting points about London, in particular Brickston. Since I am from the Caribbean, it doesn't surprise me that prostitution is encouraged. I don't know where the obsession with white men comes from.
But I do know some of these Caribbean girls in London care about money. Again has a lot to do with coming from extreme poverty.
I read this article that black girls in Africa are having sex for 7 dollars American money. They are sleeping with the chinese who invested heavily in Africa.
It seems to black women are getting used world wide.
So when these sellout black girls say they are loved in the UK. They are seriously deluding themselves. These Europeans don't regard as the equivalent to a white woman.
You are viewed as sex objects like black men who travel to Sweden or Russia and Germany.
I want to state it is not only black women in prostitution. Arabian women do it and Asian women do it but it is more of a "secret society".
It is not like the United States, where they glamorize prositution with movies like "Pretty Woman" and "Milk Money" about a lovable prostitute who meets a single father white man with a son.
I highly doubt they would make a black woman a "lovable prostitute" in a movie lol.
To be continued
"Anonymous keeps referring to you as "nigger""
I love being called nigger. Because that's what I am. I wish someone would lynch me now to put me out of my nigger misery. I can't stand seeing all of those black women and white men getting together in increasing numbers. It's not fair. White men get the most beautiful and brightest black women while I'm left living in the ghetto with an ex-felon tattooed hoodrat. How dare these sellout nappyheads not choose me mon. Me even dred up me hair but me cah get de gurls dat me wan.
Me cahhh get de gurls dat me wahhhh
Fok dis
Heey my old nigger friend Andrew Laurelton Queens. I hope you're not still mad that I gave you AIDS.
Want to come over to my house in England and fuck me up the ass? I'm just a poor ghetto hoodlum like you but I've arranged for you to stowaway on a plane. I'll speak in my British accent while you serve it to me good and hard.
Menelik Charles
London England
Dear "Mr. Laurelton Queens" and "Menelik Charles",
Seriously this is getting old. I bet my money it's Sara or one of her flunkies doing this. You guys need to leave, Andrew doesn't go there harassing you so stop harassing him.
I'm guessing your single and without kids because anybody who has a husband or boyfriend would not have time to try to impersonate another person, I know I don't.
-Julia McDaniels
Julia, where's your white husband, you nappy-headed sellout nigga bitch? Shouldn't you be somewhere now giving him head?
LOL, you don't have a husband. My blog log shows that you and "Mike" are the same person.
If you do find a white man, give me a call. I'll be happy to help you satisfy him. I give head like an expert, lol.
Dear Andrew,
We have a home computer and I usually log on from there, sometimes I log on from my laptop.
If you don't believe me, that's fine. I'm finding it hard to believe that your really the Andrew I was talking too. If you are than I really disappointed in you. I didn't think you were that kind of guy to disrespect a woman like that.
If this was from "Mr. Laurelton Queens" name , than I would dismiss it but clearly it's really you since it's from you screen name. I got the message though, I'm not welcome here. You don't need to insult me any longer.
-Julia McDaniels
@Queens,
Sellout black women use the most desperate measures to try and attract the attention of white men who are clearly not interested in their militant behavior and mentality. White men are not coming to their defense on this blog, or any other blog. Sellout black women have to impersonate other people, while they themselves remain anonymous. These sellout desperate women continue to make threats of violence on this blog. White men do not want to engage in verbal or physical combat with sellout black women who remain bitter, angry, and argumentative. This is one of the main reasons white men always call black women "irate". These characteristics add up to a "bucket of stress" that white men or any other race of men are not willing to tolerate.
@ Bro Andrew,
this anon has gotten out of hand. I think it maybe time for you to start vetting your mail.
Please consider doing so otherwise the nonsense above will become a regular tactic to distrupt the flow of debate on this blog.
Thanks
Menelik Charles
London England
Julia i doubt very much that Andrew wrote that. The trolls are just having a field day. I'd ignore it.
@Anonymous
REAL black people don't call each other the N word.That's what i don't get about black women like you. You date interracialy, use the N word quite liberally, what would your white man say if he knew you call your own race of men(regardless of their faults) such a filthy word.Or is he happy to have a woman he can call that word with impunity.
Why are you women so bitter? If black men don't want to date you,for whatever reason, do you think the white boys will roll out the red carpet with that attitude?
@ Merri
thank you, sista!
Menelik Charles
London England
@ Merri
thank you, sista!
Menelik Charles
London England
@MerriMay, Andrew has the options of a typical deadbeat nigger. :)
Julia M.,
The trolls are typing Andrew's name in the "name" box and typing the web address of his profile in the "URL" box. This gives the appearance that he posted the comment under his Google account. They pulled the same immature antics on me before I deleted their comments. Unfortunately, the immaturity of the SSC may force us to use comment moderation.
The main problem with these white-male-chasing broads is that they refuse to live in the real world. They refuse to look in the mirror and accept what's in front of them. Instead, they prefer to watch silly romance comedies like Something New and suddenly feel like every black female deserves the choice to be with a blue eyed white male. Too bad these retards just don't get it... U CAN'T CHOOSE TO EXCLUSIVELY DATE WHITE MEN IF THEY ARE NOT CHOOSING YOU!
So their choice to expand their options suddenly falls flat pretty quickly, leaving them nothing but bitterness, yet not against the racist white boys who are fucking them, dumping them and calling them nigger behind their backs?
Uhhmmmm, if you're too good for black men, then why is Andrew even on your fucking radar? Stupid sellouts... Just so illogical in every which way!
These black broads need to wake up and get the fuck off the internet every once in a while. Learn how to conduct themselves in society, stop being so fucking awkward so when you finally meet your white knight LOL, you'll behave as if you have some fucking social skills.
hahahah, who we kiddin? Just stay on the internet 24/7, it seems to be working for you & that's where y'all dummies belong...
Dear Julia
Have Mike come and visit LOL.
Make sure he knocks or calls before he comes. It is a small town and all.
This is not New York.
Take it how you like it.
This is the safest I have felt in YEARS LOL.
By the way. I'm not even bothered by these trolls on the blog.
If you can't beat them. Join them.
I just laugh. Let's all just ignore.
You have got to me kidding me. People are impersonating me now?
Seriously whoever you are, stop it. I'm done now. You've crossed the line with me, really how old are we here?
One, your not to smart simply because you would know that I sign my name at the end of every post.
Two, I have no interest in ever leaving my husband and hooking up with some guy from the Internet. That's not my style.
Three, I would never want to cause physical harm to Andrew simply because I don't know him like that. He seems like a nice guy but I won't waste my time or anyone else's trying to hurt him. That's not who I am.
Four, Leave me alone. I'm done, your sick little game Jigsaw is getting old. This is my last post and anything from here on out is NOT Julia McDaniels.
I seriously need a Google account, the people on here are crazy.
-Julia McDaniels
@Anonymous November 11, 2009 11:08PM and November 11, 2009 9:52AM:
Just because "faggots" (to use your derogatory term) don't want your black pussy (or ANY pussy for that matter) doesn't mean we hate women. Not wanting to have sex with women does not equal 'hating women'.
It's seems that those black women who get soooo upset/angry at straight black men who date/marry non-black women get EVEN MORE upset/angry at black men who are gay or bisexual.
Get over it. Just because a black man doesn't want your black pussy (for whatever reason) doesn't mean the world as we know it is coming to an end.
Look at it this way, my dear: most men are straight. As for the ones who aren't, don't worry about them because you straight women can't have everything. lol
BTW, there are no fags and no faggots. There are only straight men, gay men and bisexual men. Whether you like it or not.
"what could be on an anti-woman blog run by SUPPOSEDLY straight men that would interest an out gay man who was getting dates? nothing...so you must be a faggot...and youre on the down low too. youre trying to be sly, lurking on hate blogs run by other fags so you can get black dick from them or other males they lure into faggotry. i bet youre men-lick charles. ..."
I'm an "out" and proud black gay man. Although narrow minded straight black people (including bigoted relatives) make it difficult for me to hold my head up sometimes. And black women like you wonder why the "down-low" exists. I guess the "down-low" exists because "straight acting" gay and bisexual black men do not want to be treated like openly gay men like me.
I ended a long-term relationship with a white gay man not long ago. I have NO interest in black men as sex/romantic partners.
BTW, I accidently discovered this blog and became fascinated by the extreme hostility that seems to exist between many straight black women and men. I normally have NO INTEREST in what black people do or what happens to them but this blog is like a car wreck. I couldn't turn away. lol
I was talking to ANOTHER white man (not the white guy I broke up with) several evenings ago, who told me he was 31 years old and had recently gotten a divorce from a black woman. Without being too graphic, we had an intense sexual encounter. The point is that down-low men come in ALL races and colors. I wonder if this white guy cheated on his black ex-wife with other black men when they were married.
Note: I do not hate black women. If I hated you I wouldn't bother to tell you that so-called "down-low" men come in ALL races. It seems that some black women think that if they can find a white man to date/marry their troubles will be over. Not true. Find out everything you can about ANY man of ANY race that you're even THINKING about being serious with.
@ Anonymous
For someone who doesn't care what black men are up to, you seem hooked and a little obsessed on this particular blog.
You are a filthy mouthed woman(and I say that word very loosely)as ladies don't conduct themselves that way(like it or not it reflects your personality, and i'd wager it's not pretty)
Ladies don't use that kind of language either.
If you have your gripes with straight black men why do you then insult homosexual men who have nothing to do with you?
Protest all you want but it's very clear for all to see that you're overly obsessed with what ONE black guy on a blog says.
Refine yourself, a bit more decorum, you'd be surprised how much further it gets you in life: )
Tell you what anonymous, why don't you find other ways to channel that anger? You play tennis???
That's one of the primary reasons I moved to Wimbledon, world class tennis courts, and since you do like white guys, hey tennis and white men go hand in hand,ALSO great way to keep trim: )
Go hiking, join a bookclub,personally I hate gyms, but I do run every other day with a group, or try Kite surfing, that sort of thing.
The busier you are and get yourself out there the less you care about one little blog. Or for that matter people whose lives you just can't change.
For instance, I think the first black Miss England was a fool to hit a white girl over a guy and subsequently lose her crown. I could make excuses that the black guy she's with(or was) provoked her when he sent his white ex girlfriend a text that she then used to rankle the sista. She could have conducted herself better and been a role model for black girls in England as she'd sworn to do.
I could blame her waste of space black boyfriend as typical of black men, but we both know better.
She chose to react in a way that cost her a chance of a lifetime.
Point is, you're not responsible for other black women, nor are you their representative.
Don't take on the problems of a whole race, you can't/won't win.
@a black gay man
You're on an anti-black woman hate blog right now. You don't care about the struggles of black women, so why should black women care about your struggles as a gay man. A lot of women love gay men and bring one with them everywhere like accessories. It's straight men, not most women, who attack you verbally or physically, and you know it. Most black women who complain are complaining about the down low ones secretly sleeping with me and infect them with AIDS.
How nice I suppose, that some can be cowards and hide who they are. Well black women can't hide. Look at these nasty black men attacking us all over the internet, but still black women rise. That's exactly what black women should be doing instead of listening to and fighting with these losers. Yes, STOP coming to these blogs, black women, and leave the black women haters and the STUPID women who support them here ALONE. They're parasites who can't live without your PAIN and ANGER. WAKE UP.
*secretly sleeping with MEN.
You tragic things, feeling sooo unloved? NOT surprised, NO ONE WANTS YOU!! you can rant and rave all you want on this blog, doesn't change the fact that WHITE MEN DO NOT WANT YOU!!!
That's not black women bashing, it's a fact of life. That's what's gotten your panties in such a twist.
If you were happy and secure in any relationship with white men, which i doubt, you wouldn't be all over the internet would you???
LOL you women truly are tragic!
@ Anonymous
STOP BLAMING BLACK MEN AND OTHER BLACK WOMEN HERE FOR THE FACT THAT WHITE MEN DO NOT WANT YOU.
Statistics tell you very clearly who they're dating, ANYONE BUT YOU!
Deal with it. The more you rant the more we all know that yet another white boy turned you down!!
THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED!! LOL
@shall never pass again said:
"You don't care about the struggles of black women, so why should black women care about your struggles as a gay man. A lot of women love gay men and bring one with them everywhere like accessories. It's straight men, not most women, who attack you verbally or physically, and you know it."
You don't know me, so how can you say "you don't care about the struggles of black women"?
On the job I retired from several years ago, the harassment based on my sexual orientation was so relentless that I was forced to retire earlier than I wanted to. Luckily for me, I had enough time in to retire. The verbal/emotional harassment on that job came from males, females, blacks and whites.
I feel the outrage/anger, and even hatred, that many black women feel over being called "bitches and hoes" because I feel that SAME outrage/anger (and sometimes hatred) when black gay men are called "faggots and punks". So don't tell me what I care about (or don't care about) since you don't know me.
Note: Did you really listen to yourself say that gay men are like "accessories" to some straight women? Being someone's accessory is NOT a compliment. Would YOU want to be somebody's "accessory"?
Lick lick
@ Anomymous
Stealing white men from black women like you?? What planet did you get off of?? You never had white men to begin with.
Stay on those meds you hear??lol You're clearly delusional.
The more you post as Rocky, Menelik and Andrew etc the more we know what a desperate loony you are.
They should section you.We all know what type of black woman you are from your rants.
'WHITE MEN DO NOT WANT FAT VULGAR LOUD GHETTO TRASH LIKE YOU'
G'day y'all
So you think it's a black woman?
Man I leave for a minute
All Break loose. By the way, I was in the hospital for the flu for a couple days.
I feel good now. Cleared out all the toxins out of my body. Oh by the way, my roomate was a congressman. Go figure, I do have the gift of gab.
Every time people want me to lose. I just keeping winning.
My blog does not discriminate on gay people. Prior to my own "blog". I thought the homosexual blogs were interesting.
I tell people I am a student of the blog game.
Some people have this impression I just read sellout black women blogs. I read blogs that are related to the black struggle.
I am the last man to homophobic.
I think to be a great blogger you have to develop your own style. The sellout black women tend to copy each other with celebrity interracial pictures.
Rashida and Raina are original. Some other enemies I can mention are sort of original. I won't mention their blogs.
Now that I got that out of the way.
So I was watching Wife Swap with this black woman named Kim married to a white man. Basically they switched places with a white couple.
Long story short the white man married to Kim said "he would have to leave the relationship because she loses her temper over small things".
This was a clean cut white man. They have a daughter together. Kim screwed up her face and said she would change.
So guess what she does to her white husband on wife swap.
She gets him to hire a MAID. LOL
Wife Swap said "their relationship is great now".
MAN I wish that was me. I would have threw a slipper at her ass. Why you need a maid for 1 floor house.
That is why sellout black women keep failing!
Let me respond to the "so called" troll invasion.
Some of my friends on my blog call for moderating the comments.
I thought about it. I decided not to. My readers can continue to comment and the anonymous can cry and scream from the sidelines.
Thank you for commenting several times on my blog. You just build up the topic opposed to 0 comments like "other bloggers" when they don't mention black men lol.
As long as I got your attention on my blog. Believe me I am happy lol.
I didn't even have to comment for 4 days.
Man look for that Precious post lol.
Rocky don't even bother with the moderation. It is just a waste of time to me. I will respond to those who I want to respond to.
Good day Everyone. LOL
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